Modern Day Matchmaker: Old Fashioned Dating Rules for the New Year
Paul Carrick Brunson
Over the years and as we interact with life we start to form a list of the items that should be present in the person we want to spend the rest of our lives with. This list is the key factor that makes us fall in love with someone and not another person.
Your culture, your society, your past experiences, your childhood experiences, your relationship with your friends and your relationship with your parents shapes this list until it contains the code that can make you love a certain person.
Always Look Your Best
Attraction is very primal. We’re attracted to “good looks.” That said, you never know when you may meet that special someone at the supermarket, gas station or on the street. If you always look your best, you’ll always stand the best chance of securing a date.
Confidence Is Sexy
Men love a woman with confidence. Be sure to smile, keep your back straight, listen attentively, walk with your shoulders back and speak slowly. This will make you seem confident, even if you are quivering with nervousness inside.
Bad Breath Kills
Nothing kills chances of a kiss, or a second date, like bad breath. If your breathy conversation has been malodorous, chances are your date will likely extend you a hand at the end of the evening. Visit the dentist regularly, practice healthy brushing habits at home and always carry mints!
We Show Our Respect With Our Time
If he’s 5-10 minutes late, he may be pulling a Diddy, and trying to make an entrance. However, 10 minutes plus, with no phone call, is simply rude. Multiple incidents like this show you exactly how much respect he has for your time.
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What do you think? Are you headed for love this year?