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Joseline Hernandez  and Mimi Faust from ” Love and Hip Hop Atlanta”  are a perfect teaching tool on how not to become a victim of your  relationship. They have both fallen victim to the wiles and advances  of a toxic Stevie J.

This week’s episode was a perfect example of just how toxic Stevie J’s behavior had become.

When Joseline  and Mimi finally meet face-to-face, Joseline got straight to the point, and held nothing back as she revealed that the child she was (allegedly) carrying was Stevie J’s. “You and I know that when I first met him back in December he didn’t come home for three months,” she tells Mimi. “I know whose baby I have in my stomach, and you know too.”

Mimi’s response? “I know what I’m dealing with when it comes to Stevie. I’m not a f**king fool, I know exactly what I got. As far as you are concerned, you’re a stripper who’s trying to get on,” implying that Joseline could be pregnant by someone else, or not even pregnant at all. “Do you even know who you’re pregnant by?” asks Mimi.

But Joseline wasn’t having it. “I’m pregnant by your man,” she said with conviction, quieting Mimi.

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Joseline fell victim  because someone treated her nice. Mimi fell victim because she has a child  with a man that appears to think he can do whatever he wants whenever he wants to whomever he wants. Both of these women are in toxic relationships.

While Mimi is at it she should see what I wrote for her predecessor in “Love & Hip Hop’s” Erica Mena Should Learn These Reality TV Rules . You can’t call foul when  the truth is that the editing is only editing what you give them. The other interesting thing is that both  women appear to be pretty industrious in survival skills. The problem for both of them is one thing. Stevie J.

Mimi  Faust revealed in a recent interview, “I thought he and I were working towards something, towards raising and building our family. But when I realized that wasn’t the direction we were both trying to go in… my head was there and his was obviously elsewhere…then I made a decision at that point.”

Joseline should read read:HYSTERICAL!!!!! Writer Explains Why You’re Not Married! [MATURE COMEDY]

Toxic Relationships consists of Emotionally Bankrupted People who believe, think, and feel that the other Person owes them, and they are constantly out to collect. Like a Cruel Debt Collector, the Emotionally Bankrupt Person who lacks Empathy will do what ever to get what s/he feels is owed to him/her. They are constantly looking for how they can have the advantage, and take the advantage. In Toxic Relationships things are not given away freely, they are taken and stolen through deception, manipulation, and force. Toxic Relationships are filled with users and abusers. When we find ourselves in Toxic Relationships we have 3 choices; (1) Leave the Relationship, go No Contact (NC) (2) Remain in the Relationship and Remain the Victim (3) Become like them (overt & covert Ns), if you can’t beat them join them, and find another victim to use and abuse. Toxic Relationships are about Victimization, you are either a Victim, or an Abuser (either the Primary Abuser, the obvious Overt N, or the Secondary Abuser which is the Covert N who does nothing to stop the Primary Abuser, so if someone does nothing to stop the abuse, then s/he is supporting it by his/her lack of action.).

Both of these women need to cut their losses.

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